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Pre-pandemic, Groshek frequently had friends and family over for dinner, but this spring’s event presented a new challenge. “After such a long time, I had to start seeing my house through someone else’s eyes,” she says. Plus, the pandemic adds an extra layer of planning: To feel comfortable in your home, people also need to feel safe.